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I'm a 31 year old obese woman who can't love me for who I am. As far as I see it, I'm done looking like this. I want my body to match who I am inside and out...a beautiful person! By accepting I'm fat and realizing I am the only one who can change it, I'm ready to go on this journey and come out on top!

Member Since: 12/12/2007

Fitness Minutes: 0

My Goals:
My goals are many...number one is to lose this weight that has been haunting me for most of my life. Number two is to get to work on my photography career! I'm a pro by job, amature by trade!! :) But I love it! Number three is to find the love of my life along the way of this journey! I've been burned twice, 3rd time's a charm! :)

My Program:
For my weightloss goals, I'm going to start working out, taking walks, doing some cardio (I think). I did a self defense class a couple years ago and got some equipment so I'm going to bring that out.
Photography goals: Just keep doing what I'm doing but get my name out there and build my self confidence in my ablitity to take awesome photographs!
Meet my man: Nothing...I'm giving it to God! :)

Personal Information:
I live in Oregon and enjoy the beautiful scenery! I love to travel and did a lot of it with my job in the last 3 months.
If you would like to email me, please feel free...BellaJen7694@yahoo.com

Other Information:
My job is as a Professional Photographer for Lifetouch Preschool Portraits. Just recently, I wrote a quote..."Never do you not find beauty in the smile of a child."
I love to sing, and have been for a while, I sing solos at my church, I play piano and enjoy writing my own music, I'm taking a sign language class and LOVE it! I'm a writer and I'm inspired by many many things! :)

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  • v WAM004
    Sorry it has been so long since we chatted!!! How are you? How was your holidays? I was on vacation for the holidays!! I still did good I gained 1lbs for 10 days at home. I ate some sweets-but I did only have a serving a day. One week in the new year and I lost 4lbs!!!! I started light jogging with my walks. I did have a weak moment but I handled it great. On Sunday I had a craving for ice cream, now this surpised me because I haven't eating any in about 4 months or so!!!! When I scooped out my son's bowl I had one little ice cream scoop and that was it. It helped with the craving and I don't feel I cheated. Well got to go-still trying to catch up from vacation.
    Talk to you soon,
    4679 days ago
    Sending Christmas greeting your way. May the joy of the season fill your heart with warmth. May you never lose the childlike wonderment of the season. Love, Peace and Blessings to you.

    4694 days ago
    Hey Sweetie - thanks for the comment.
    after reading your profile I see we have a lot in common. I used to be a wedding photographer and do childrens portraits - now I curate for others.
    I read your blog - about overwieght anorexic - I guess that title would fit me too. when I'm fat ,I feel i look ok, when I lose weight I feel fat - I really don't have a normal body perception.
    I love to flirt - and after I come away and happen to by chance take a look at myself in the mirror, think OMG how can such a fat slob like me even contemplate flirting ? I guess a really good flirt knows how to give over a nice and sincere compliment together with a little tease. People generally feel uncomfortable when they are complimented but they love to recieve attention/praise and I guess I love to point out to people what thier best at or look. So it really doesn't matter how the flirt looks like it's what's being said and of course the delivery. If someone is giving you a bouquet of flowers - do you care what the delivery person looks like? But you sure are happy what he gives it to you.
    Keep up the good work and remember to take it slowly - sometimes it can get scary when a lot of people give you compliments - so just keep focused.

    4702 days ago
    Thanks so much for the comment! I am in Texas, but strangely enough we have a good friend who lives in Eugene. I hope that you have found as much motivation as I have with SP. I am really excited about changing my lifestyle to gain my health and body back, but it is slow going for me. I seem to lose 5 lbs just to gain 3 back. I just keep at it and hope that I am doing things right this time. Please feel free to hollar at me any time. It is very nice to know that we are not alone in our journey.

    4705 days ago
  • v WAM004
    Thank you for adding me to your friends list. Always know I will be here for you. You can do it!!! Let me know if I can help you with the picky eating. My husband is a picky eater so maybe I can help.
    4706 days ago
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