So Insulting

Hind sight, an amazing thing. When I was 303 lbs I stopped weighing didn't want to know. I broke my foot n had to use crouches NOT EASY BEING BIG. So I decided to lose some weight. My hubby was talking about I didn't need to lose N that he like the way I looked etc etc. Then he was like if it will make u happy do it. I lost the weight gained half back.

It's a couple years later, I m tired of hearing the Dr's tell me I wont be in so much pain if I lost some weight then I got pneumonia, start having to use a nebulizer. Dr's tell me more wont need it so much if I lose some weight .

I decide it's time to do this, hubby was really against it, but I started any way. Now he is my biggest support (he is enjoying the results). Well Sat @ my dil baby shower i was truly shocked. When of the young ladies from the church. Who I've watched grow up. Asked me if I was leaving my hubby, shocked I asked WHY. She told CAUSE GIRL YOUR LOOKING REALLY GOOD YOU CAN REALLY SEE THE WEIGHT YOU LOST. I informed her NO just trying to get healthier 2 b able to have a better life with my hubby. She apologized but I was upset. Then later on another person jokingly says HE BETTER BE TREATING HER RIGHT CAUSE IF HE DON'T WATCH IT SOMEONE GONNA COME ALONG N SNATCH HER AWAY. I'm still upset

Hubby & I discussed it & he also is upset then he informed me that it was a concern of his.
We looked at only other 3 people that we know that ever lost weight, although not related to their weight lost or so I believe I began to c y ppl r asking if my marriage is okay. 3 ppl lost weight 1st cheated 2nd cheated n left hers 3rd separated WOW
Opened my eyes, glad hubby n I discussed it hey if I didn't leave him during the legal problems n all those hardships I ain't going no place now. I know that he realized this before the discussion cause he now reminds me to do my workouts. He even walks with me to help motivate me.

I was feeling so good about ppl seeing my progress n realizing how serious I m about this. But a few 'jokingly' said comments were just sooo insulting. It will not deter me I WILL FINISH WHAT I STARTED. I will get healthier & loss this weight.