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Broken Hearted

Friday, September 25, 2009

So, DH told me that he no longer finds me attractive. He in fact thinks I have now reached the point of fat (which I agree with). Now, today, I have found out that he no longer loves me like he used to. He has more of a companionship love for me. No, he's not saying these things to be mean. He really hates to hurt my feelings. We made a deal a long time ago that we would be honest with each other, and I am the one that asked him the specific questions. I appreciate his honesty, but it doesn't mean it doesn't hurt me. emoticon emoticon
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  • KAV1983
    Sorry to hear this. I went through something similar when I was 20, someone I had been with (and gained the weight with) for 4 years. He never was that honest with me but after he lost his weight he cheated and I left.

    Please try to remember that if he isn't part of the solution, he is part of the problem. If he truly loved you he would be supporting you, My boyfriend now is taking this journey with me and I can say it definitely helps. Know you have lots of people on this site here to support and help you through this.

    4018 days ago
  • no profile photo GRANDMA1963
    DEAR BROKEN HEARTED, I KNOW YOUR PAIN AND MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU, I LOOK AT IT THIS WAY IF HE COULDNT LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU ARE THEN HE IS THE LOSER NOT YOU, IT WILL TAKE TIME TO LOSE THE WEIGHT, IT DOESNT HAPPEN OVER NIGHT AS WE BOTH KNOW, BUT KEEP YOUR HEAD UP IF YOU NEED A SHOULDER TO LEAN ON TRUST ME I HAVE SOME PRETTY BIG SHOULDERS I BEEN WHERE YOU ARE AND AFTER 8 YEARS I FINALLY LEFT HIM AND FOUND MY HUSBAND THAT LOVES ME FOR WHO I AM NOT WHAT I LOOK LIKE IT IS NOT WHAT ON THE OUTSIDE THAT COUNTS IT IS THE INSIDE THAT COUNTS KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND KEEP YOUR CHIN UP,,,IF YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO I AM JSUT A CLICK AWAY...HANG IN THERE THINGS WILL GET BETTER...TAKE CARE..GRANDMA1963 emoticon emoticon
    4018 days ago
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