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8/9/11 7:39 A

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No one can really judge any one else's life from a message board entry or two. I would say this though. Any relationship that has you putting on hold any aspect of your personal growth is one that wasn't meant to work out. The woman meant for you is going to embrace your sexuality and your desires to grow and learn in any and every facet of your life, including your sexuality! (heck that's one of the most important aspects of couplehood).

I am sensing a lot of pain and hurt in your words here and on your spark page. I can only say this.. While pain and hurt are your primary emotions, it will not be easy to attract anyone. Been there done that.. and that's why I am saying it.

Now the worst and most corny contrite words I ever heard, did hold true for me. It is when I absolutely stopped looking that my husband found me. I was also still pretty bitter from a bad relationship and I refused to even consider him. Stubborn guy hung in there and we've been together 4 years now. It can and does happen.. just doesn't seem to happen when we are really wishing for it.

Good luck...

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8/8/11 12:02 P

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I'm trying to see it that way. But I'm just not there right now. But thanks for that bit of information. I just might smile the next time this comes up.

Katrina
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What are you going to do today to reach your goals of tomorrow?

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8/8/11 11:56 A

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Bluerose: You and I are in exactly opposite positions. I already found my best friend, my other half, my soul mate, The Freaking ONE...and she tore my heart to shreds. I don't think I'm even capable of loving anyone as fiercely as I loved her, not anymore. That killed the romantic part of my soul. Now I just want fun. I put the development of my sex life on hold for four years on her account, and I'm rapidly running out of time to actually enjoy good sex with attractive partners, so I want as much of it as I can get. It's really all I have that I can look forward to out of life right now, as sad as that is.

If a guy wants to have a one night stand with you, stop taking it as an insult. It's how we express that we think you're beautiful.

Your weapons cannot harm me, I'm the JUGGERNAUT! I'll hit you with your own pimp!


When life gives you lemons, BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD!!!


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8/8/11 9:50 A

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I get your frustration. I have finally given up on looking for that someone. I am just working on me. Who I am. What I love to do. When it's right, that right person will come into my life. I believe it.

In the meantime, I am really getting sick of these creeps looking for one night stands trying to convince me otherwise. Not interested. Sorry buddy. I'm worth more.

Besides. I don't believe in the love at first sight thing. I am looking for my best friend. Someone who genuinely cares about me. And if something grows out of that, then perfect.

You are on the right track. Keep taking care of you. Show these people you believe you are worth the effort. When it's right, you'll find her. And don't settle for anything less.

Katrina
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You can not change yesterday - it's done.
You can only dream of tomorrow.
The only day you can change is today.
What are you going to do today to reach your goals of tomorrow?

It's supposed to be hard. If it wasn't hard, everyone would do it. The hard is what makes it GREAT

Go little Turtle Go!


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8/7/11 5:28 P

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I not really sure what it is going to take. But it will happen. Give it time. I hope you find someone special to share all you have to offer.

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8/7/11 11:01 A

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That's awful. I know it means a lot when it comes from those that mean a lot to you. I know it does for me. My husband complements me after someone else does, never on his own. One day you will not be alone in the room there will be someone there with you that wants to be there. Be patient.

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8/7/11 2:54 A

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What the hell does it freaking take?

I've lost a hundred pounds. I groom myself, clean up nice, work out constantly, present myself well, and go out to places where there are lots of girls and I act cheerful and upbeat. I dress nice. I start conversations all throughout the night and do everything I'm supposed to, but at the end of the night I'm always alone in my room. What the hell is wrong with me?

The only people who ever tell my I look good are extremely overweight women, and other guys. They don't count. In other words, I never get the slightest nod from the ones I'm actually interested in, and that is wearing me down to the bone. What the hell do I need to do to be considered sexy, by the people whom I need to see me that way???

Your weapons cannot harm me, I'm the JUGGERNAUT! I'll hit you with your own pimp!


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