What is your "Skinny" Fantasy?

hmmmm My Skinny Fantasy

To be able to shop at Victoria Secrets (NOTHING there currently fits me)

To be able to wear actually jean shorts

To walk into the mall and actually buy real clothes

To not be scared of a tanning bed (I love to tan, its relaxing, but I am embarrassed in public and I am terrified of a Tanning Bed, I am afraid that It will break under my weight)

To wear this beautiful Silk Shirt that was bought for me two Christmas' ago that has NEVER fit (my hips and stomach are too wide)

To have my husband be proud of me, and be the Hot Wife

healthy!!
fitted jeans
cute shirts
SMALLER BRA SIZE!!! (can I get an amen?!)
comfortable when I fly
normal stores
not having my hips and butt spill over a chair!
thighs not rubbing together
feel good about working out in public
not being a plus size bride when that time comes.
not having fat arms!
being able to ride any roller coaster I want (can't now because my hips are too wide)


Edited by: JHARP2 at: 3/26/2013 (14:26)

1. Be Healthy
2. Alleviate Depression and Anxiety through exercise
3. Be able to do the things I love such as hiking and bicycling
4. Not to have my thighs rub together
5. To be able to fit into the cute clothes I admire
6. Not to have chicken wings anymore ;)
7. Feel sexy
8. Have more energy
9. Become stronger
10.To feel good about myself! :D

Shopping at normal stores
Sitting in a chair and not having my butt take up the entire space - and then some :)
Buying cute lingerie and feeling great in it (also applies to bikini/swim suits)
Having less leg to shave (should be faster right?)

1)be able to go shopping at the "normal stores" and also not hate shopping for clothes, because everything is too small and looks tight on me
2)be able to wear a bikini and pull it off
3)be able to ride the rides at disney world and walk around the park without being exhausted
4)Feel as sexy as my husband says I am, be someone he can show off and be proud of
5) be an example my kids can be proud of

1. Look better than the first time my husband met me
2. Fit my engagement ring again (I've been wearing a cheap walmart band since my fingers are too fat for the beautiful ring my hubby got me when we got engaged.)
3. Be the Hot Girl; not just the cute girl
4. Run...for fun!
5. Actually look as good as I feel in Zumba class
6. Be able to cross my legs again.
7. Be flexible
9. Not be held back from doing anything because of my weight
10. Last but not least: To be Confident in myself.

1. Be healthy
2. Not turn super duper red any time I do something active (very fair skin + overweight = tomato lol)
3. Wear cute clothes
4. Fit into desks at school comfortably (and also any other small seats)
5. To not feel like Godzilla any time I'm out
6. To not be "Poptart" shaped

1. Shop at any store.~ Seriously Kohls, could your Plus size clothes be more frumpy?!
2. Fit in to seats/ride a roller coaster again
3. Feel as sexy as my husband tells me I am :-/
4. Not hide from the camera and always be the one behind it.
5. Have my kids and family be proud of me.
6. Borrow my teenage daughters' clothes

I'm sure I will think of more!

My List!!!

1. not fear wedding and family photographs.
2. feel comfortable and beautiful in anything I wear.
3. set good examples for my family and friends.
4. feel sexy for my fiancé and myself!

many more but these are my top!!

My skinny fantasies:

1. Always having the option to take the stairs instead of elevators
2. Going shopping for myself (normal sizes)
3. Feeling good about going into a fitting room in a clothing store
4. Wearing high heels without having my feet swell out of control
5. Wearing lingerie (oh my gosh,yes! this is number 1)
6. Being able to look good exercising and feeling good about exercise
7. Wearing graceful, flowing dresses
8. Looking great in lingerie and naked

Definitely have a lot!!
1. feel sexy and beautiful with my natural curves.
2.climb stairs without getting winded.
3. Fit comfortably in auditorium, roller coaster, car, plane, etc seats, and not feel like I'm crowding people and not getting bruises on my hips.
4. To shop at whatever store I want!!
5. No arm, stomach, thigh, or chin flab!! not have my thighs rub together when I walk! lol sounds crazy but sadly true
6. Run around with my friends or with the kids that I love!!
7. To not be the FAT friend/cousin!!
8. Make my family and friends proud if what I have achieved
9. Be healthy
10. to not have to worry about being a plus size bride when I get married(a huge fear)
11. to not have to worry about my health when I am ready to have children, and know that my babies will be healthy
12. for my knees and ankles to be stronger and not have to worry about hurting myself when I try to run or play
There are soooooo many more that I could say!!

Skinny Fantasy
1. Wear a bikini for the first time ever.
2. Be able to carry my daughter anywhere
3. Have a backless LBD
4. Feel sexy and show it.
5. No arm flab
6. No getting winded unless I'm running for my life, haha
7. Never see another double chin in a picture of me

Edited by: CD13719885 at: 3/5/2013 (01:00)

My skinny Fantasy is pretty simple:

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1. I want to wear a bikini to the beach
2. I want to look really good naked : )
3. And I want to outrun my boyfriend in a major race.

Where to start? Haha.

1. To be the one who says "Race you there!" and means it, when I'm with my group of friends.
2. To be picked up and swung around by my guy friends.
3. To shop in any clothing store I want.
4. To wear shorts and a tank top in the summer, and look healthy (not overweight) while doing it.
5. To not be the biggest in my family.
6. To have people compliment me on how fit I am.

:)

1) To be able to shop in the stores that sell the clothing styles I love
2) To feel healthy, confident, and energetic
3) To know that I set a good example for my young son
4) To look BANGIN for my husband (and anyone else who wants to check me out lol)

-To look at family pictures and not feel like the odd-duck in the family
-To feel like I fit in with my friends (they are all wonderful people and love me for who I am, but I hate that I'm the one that always looks different)
-To actually look my age
-To not pull something out of my closet and wonder if it will fit that day or not
-To not have my thighs rub together when I walk....that can hurt after a while :(
-To shop clearance at stores and actually find my size
-To wear a sundress with thin straps and not feel like I need a sweater over it

The list could go on, but I'll stop there :)

Where to begin.

1) Tie my shoes without getting winded!
2) Cut down on the amount of medications (if any) that I need for asthma/depression.
3) Be able to wear the cute outfits I pin on Pinterest and know they will be available in my size instead of wondering if I could just learn to sew and make them all myself!
4) Save money on clothes - plus sizes are ALWAYS more expensive!
5) Be able to wear the clothes I dream of wearing and those that I feel match my personality...right now I feel like I'm playing dress up when I wear clothes I like...I want it to feel natural.
6) BATHING SUIT...one-piece..MAYBE tankini...but never a bikini...in public anyway ;o)
7) Feel sexy naked and not self conscious. Don't get me wrong. Plenty of plus-size women feel damn beautiful naked or in next to nothing, but I am not happy with what I have let my body become, so my confidence is MIA.
8) No longer be the fattest in the family!
9) Be a runner like my mom/brother/dad.
10) SKINNY JEANS!!!! :o)

There are so many more...but this is a good start.

This is a great question and I have so many.

1. Shop wherever I want.
2. Wear whatever I want.
3.Walk confidently in high heels
4. Look sexy and womanly in a body hugging little black dress, instead of a chubby, chocolate, cherub.
5. Turn heads with my new body and confidence when I walk down the street.
6. Not feel second rate.
7. Feel incredibly sexy and confident when I strip down to my goodies for my boyfriend.
8. Wear mini skirts
9. Wear sleeveless tops and not always cover up with a jacket or sweater.
10. Be able to cross my legs
11. Feel comfortable taking a flirty girl fitness class
12. (WARNING! ADULT CONTENT) Be able to ride my boyfriend and not feel like I am going to crush him even though he swear i'm not.
13. Be tossed around by my boyfriend.
14. Be able to wear my boyfriends button ups.
15. Be able to run a 5k
16. Not be ashamed to run in broad daylight
17. Not have to wear anything above 14. (Since most places cary size 14)
18. Just feel like a normal person and not fee horrible when someone starts talking about obese America and the statistics.

I have so many!!
1) I want to be able to go to my closet and put something on and know it fits.
2) Beable to shop for cute clothes and not have to just settle for what's available in my size.
3) Be comfortable walking into a room
4) Where cute dresses, tank tops and skirts.
5) Sit comfortably in a booth at a restaurant. (Not automatically be put at a table instead)
6) Be able to run!!
7) WOW my husband and maybe even get a few glances from strangers. (Hope that's not wrong)

The list goes on and on really!

Your guys ideas are awsome and at the same time made me want to cry. I am thankful that even at 200+ pounds to loose I dont repulse my self. I see my face and think I am beautiful. But of course there are things I look forward to,

#1 looking in the mirror at myself fool body and seeing only my big hips not the mothers apron hanging down.
# 2 Being on top with my hubby (I hope we are all grown ups here)
#3 buying my first pair of size 12 jeans
#4 dancing and not having to be funny because I jiggle so much when I dance and people find it funny.

To wear skirts and cute sundresses and to look spectacular. I will feel like a jedi haha :P

1) To go backpacking again

2) To not feel awkward when I wear clothes

3) To be in shape enough to attempt a marathon!

But my biggest skinny fantasy is to be able to walk in to a bridal store and know that I can try on any dress I like because they actually make it in my size.

When I reach my goal I want to be able to

1. Totally blow my husband away with my sexiness and confidence
2. Get a new wardrobe with tons of shorts, tank tops and dresses
3. Look up my ex husband and dare him to call me a fat*** again
4. Have a baby
5. Just be ridiculously happy with myself
6. Keep the weight off!

Adding buying jewelry to this....getting a necklace or ring or anything that just fits without having to buy a longer chain or get it sized!

Edited by: CD13401995 at: 1/16/2013 (20:27)

To receive a piggyback ride from my boyfriend - or anyone haha
To effortlessly climb flights of stairs without feeling winded
To wear something from a store that doesn't carry plus size clothing
To look at my whole body in the mirror and not be tempted to look away in shame or disgust

love this one :) here is muy list

Wear a sexy fitted dress
have my partner carry me over to our bed on our wedding night
be able to burn or get rid of all my clothes and buy an entire new wardrobe
wear a bikini for the first time ever
look at myself and love what I see
feel comfortable when I go out with all my "skinny" friends and not feel uncomfortable
do a sexy photoshoot
be healthy for my son
go on a boat cruise

thanks for this one there is more but can't think of them at the moment :) this one was so much fun

has to be for my husband to finally be able to carry me over the threshold of the house...but the bikini would me awesome too!

My main one would be for my husband to pick me up while we are having sex(you know all of you was thinking it too)lol
I can run around and play with my kids
Not to be worried about going out and having people look at me
there is many other ones
the last one is to be able to look in the mirror and love who I am and not cry at the way i look

OOOO this one is fun. :) I'll try to sensor the really naughty ones I have.

1) Wear sexy tall boots
2) Go swimming and feel comfortable in just my swim suit
3) Wear a mini-skirt
4) Go on a tropical vacation
5) Afford clearance clothes because they'll have my size. Actually enjoy shopping!
6) Crowd surf
7) Strip tease for my husband
8) Thigh-high stockings
9) Show off my arm tattoos and get my half sleeve finished

Amanda, you're #7 is great! I can't believe i didn't think of that when i wrote my list!
It's always so mortifying when my husband wants to pick me up and i have to stop him, because i know if he did try he wouldn't be able to. That's going on my goal list. Wow, it would be so amazing to be so light that i could be lifted by one person!!! Great motivator!

1. Wear knee high boots
2. Be the one to give away my clothes because they are just too big
3. Take ballroom dancing (and not worry about being laughed at)
4. Shop the clearance and sales racks knowing they have my size
5. Be able to walk in heels
6. Make my husband think "look at the hottie that chose me"
7. For my husband to be able to pick me up

Edited by: AMANDAKYTE at: 1/9/2013 (11:01)

My skinny fantasy is to:

- finally wear a bikini
- learn how to surf
- run a 5k
- buy a completely new wardrobe, and burn all my old clothes once I reach my goal weight
- finally be a different bra/ pant size
- go ziplining
- put on a striptease for my boyfriend
- throw a party just to show off my new body
- go swimming without a shirt!
- being able to buy designer stuff because I could actually fit into it.

When I get skinny/ healthy I will:

1. Go on vacation to somewhere tropical and go running on the beach in a sports bra and some booty shorts. And go get a tan on a nude beach.

2. Get some sexy lingerie and a super slutty red dress and heels, go out dancing with my husband and some friends, get hit on all kinds, then take my hubby home and let him have his way with me.

3. Enjoy hour-long hot baths without feeling like there isn't enough room in the bathtub to cover my rolls.

4. Go running with my little sister. And maybe share clothes with her.

5. Get pregnant naturally, and have a doctor tell me how many pounds I need to GAIN to have a healthy pregnancy.

6. Get hit on at the gym.

7. Wear my wedding ring.

8. Buy cheap clothes that look good because I look good, not because I bought them to specifically hide "problem areas"

9. Run a marathon or do an ironman

10. Feel good about myself every day.

My skinny fantasies? Girl, I've got a list - I'll just leave out the naughty bits ;)

Be able to fit in those tiny college desks, without having to tuck in the tummy. (Seriously who made those desks?!)
Be able to shop for clothes with my roommates without feeling ashamed or embarrassed.
Wear a jean size that isn't higher than my age
Shop at Victoria's Secret and feel sexy when I walk out
Chase my nieces and nephews and not feel like I'm dying
To not die in Iowa summers
To wear a pretty, non frumpy, swimsuit for the first time ever
Actually be able to buy clothes on sale! Plus-size never seems to be on sale..
Pretty bras. Y'all might understand that one...
Ride a roller coaster and not get looks of 'Will she fit'?
Feel comfortable enough to wear shorts above my knees.
To run in a marathon some day
To look drop dead gorgeous in a wedding gown
Get more tattoos (I'm holding off right now)
Not feel sore in my knees and ankles
To feel beautiful when I look at myself
To climb stairs without being winded
To wear boots again
To learn how to walk in heels

I've probably got more but I suppose these are good for now? This was actually really fun! -hugs-

i want to run a mile without stopping.
wear a bikini.
ride a rollercoaster.
ride a horse.
canoe with my husband.
not have to worry about keeping my pants pulled up when i'm chasing my daughters.
i want to break necks like i did when i was 17... i was cute.
i want my husband to be able to throw me over his shoulder.
i want to shop, shop, shop. mainly for trashy club outfits and super conservative suits... two things i've always wanted to experiment with but i always substitute a baggy tshirt.
i want to jog in the daylight!

I want to cross my legs again!! It's been about 7 years since i've crossed my legs while sitting. My thighs are just too huge. But I WILL be able to by the end of this year!!

Not be confined by the teeny tiny PLUS size section of clothing stores. I want to shop the whole store!

Have a pair of pants last longer than a year - not have to worry about wearing holes in my pants because of my inner thighs rubbing.

Be able to fit into any chair! No more worrying about chairs with arms!

My biggest fantasy is simply to look in the mirror and like what i see.

I almost made myself cry this morning because I was having trouble buckling my seatbelt. I never thought that I would say that one of my skinny fantasies was to be able to buckle my seatbelt with ease! I've never been skinny, so my skinny fantasy would be to be able to look in the mirror and see someone I've never seen before! I also wouldn't mind being able to shop at Victoria's Secret:)

My biggest problem with being overweight is that when I go to the water park or amusement park, I can't ride everything with my son. This past summer I went to the amusement park and for the first time, had to get off of a ride because I couldn't fit on it. I was so embarassed I didn't ride anything the rest of the day, I just told my son I didn't feel good.

I want to be able to ride all the of the rides with him, with no restrictions... and of course wear bikinis, cuter clothes, be a fox for my husband, and look hotter than his ex wife. :)

Be able to walk around without feeling like people are always watching me.

My "skinny" fantasy is feeling comfortable in my skin in every aspect. I would love to feel sexy again and have an insurmountable amount of energy! I love and crave life, I just wish I could live it to the fullest.

I can really relate to the statements on your list, good luck in your journey.

1. Have a space between my thighs
2. Like who I see in the mirror (huge thing for me)
3. No longer feel self conscious when I get undressed in front of my guy.
4. Pin-up photo shoot. I have amazing curves but too much fat to feel confident right now
5. Enjoy the beach/pool again (swimsuits suck)
6. Shopping. I would love to be able to enjoy it for once. I have always hated shopping.

I'm sure I will continue this list. Great idea!

I love your post.... I would love to feel great naked... I try not to be embarassed or ashamed now but I'm pretty sure its obvious......

Also,
Wear a bikini
Buy knee boots that fit my calfs w/o being "extra wide"
Make my boyfriends family jelious (they don't like me) :(
Wear booty shorts
:)
Best of Luck!

Edited by: DALTON8706 at: 11/8/2012 (09:56)

1. To feel comfortable in a bathing suit!
2. To be able to shop where I want and not worry if they are going to have my size.
3. To go to an amusement park without fear that they will tell me I can't ride the rides because I'm too heavy.
4. To travel in a plane without wearing seatbelt extenders.
5. To have guys notice me and feel confident enough to ask guys out on a date and believe that they could actually like me.

So just FYI... I love this topic!!
My skinny fantasies
1. Be able to shop in any store in the mall
2. Have a gap between my thighs
3. Wear a bikini
4. Look and feel good naked
5. Feel confident in any clothes I put on

Edited by: NIFFERJACOBSEN at: 11/10/2012 (10:30)

To be proud of myself.
To be able to go shopping and have the freedom to chose what I want, not chose what happens to be there.
To be able to run and play with my son without getting winded.

I will be able to wake up in the morning, and pick ANYTHING in my closet without thinking "Nope, those pants make me look fat with that shirt." I can put anything on and feel beautiful :)

AH! I love this thread! I think it's so important to voice our goals, and the things we will do once our weight is gone, or we're healthier! Keeps up the motivations!

Ok! Skinny Fantasies:

I want to wear a very sexy dress and see my husband's jaw drop when he sees me! I want to wear a cute bathing suit! I imagine looking at myself in the mirror and not seeing my stomach looking like a circular water floatie permanently attatched to my body! I want to sashay down the street on a date with my husband, turn a few heads, then grab his butt and give him a huge sloppy kiss to show him that I am sbeautiful, sexy and I chose HIM! But that's just me. *sheepish grin*

I love this thread!

I'm going to wear all the clothes I can't now...a cute little black dress, a two piece swimsuit, skinny jeans! I'm looking forward to buying a new wardrobe in general. Oh, and I promised my husband I would buy new lingerie, too. :)

My fantasy is to finally be able to wear a bathing suite and be proud of the way I look. And to be able to shop at any store in the mall and be able to buy the clothes....Furthermore to be able to go shopping with my friends. Also to feel sexy when it's baby making time with my hubby, lol. I hope that was not TMI, just being real with what my skinny fantasy is.

I want to wear a bikini. And buy clothes wherever I feel like, with the only reason to try on because I want to see how sexy I am, and not to check for unappealing fat rolls. But a photo shoot would be cool....

There are so many things I would like to do WHEN not IF I become thin, but only one I would consider a fantasy since I don't know that I'd ever have the courage to do it....

-Nude Photo Shoot. I would love to look and feel great naked, and have a picture to remember the feeling lol. (Not to mention the pic would be a great motivator for my common law if ya know what I mean lol. Can you say steamy anniversary gift!)

I want to not have to buy my clothes online (with exception of bras since I will always be an odd size)
I want to not worry about getting my sister's health issues
I want my doctor to not go, "well, surprisingly you don't have high cholesterol/blood pressure/blood sugar."
I want to go horse back riding and not worry about the horse having back pain
I want to ride my Huffy racing bike again without worrying about breaking it
I want to not be afraid to date
I want to wear a two piece bathing suit without worrying if it will cover my fat rolls
I want to travel and not have people make fun of me
I want to run with my dog (at least for a little ways)
I want to be able to get a tattoo
I want to hike on the Appalachian Trail
I want to be able to do a sit up
I want this list to not be so long!

Okay, I have one that weight loss cannot help, but if I put it out there maybe someone will know a way around it.
I want to be able to wear womens shoes instead of mens (size 17 shoe in womens anyone know where I can get them?)

I want to be truly HAPPY about the way I look and feel.
I want to wear NORMAL sized clothing that's fashionable.
I want guys to hit on ME.
I want to wear a bikini, tank and shorts, or anything that makes me look SEXY.
I want to eat and not feel GUILTY about what or how much I am eating.
I want my MOM to not worry about my health.
I want to go DANCING at a club with friends and not feel fat.
I want to MARRY someone someday that loves me for me.

I could go on and on...

i want someone to say that i am beautiful for the first time in my life and not just say i am "cute"
i want to FEEL beautiful
i want a guy to hit on me
i want a real boyfriend...
i want guys to give me a second look
i want to not be the biggest person in the room
i want to be able to ask my sister for a sweatshirt and not her husbands when i am chilly
i want to feel comfortable wearing a tank top in the summer
i want to where shorts for the first time since i was thirteen!

I want to go skinny dipping.
I want to go streaking and have people laugh instead of being disgusted.
I want girls to be attracted to me.
I want to be able to go to an amusement park and get on the rides.
I want clothes that fit me properly.
To ride a bicycle and not feel like people are laughing at me.
To eat in a restaurant and order desert and not feel guilty.

I want to look good in a bikini
I want to get hit on in a bar
I want to shop in regular size stores
I want to climb stairs without being winded
I want to travel by plane without worrying about the buckle fitting
I want to scuba dive again
I want to ride a bike uphill

I want to:
be able to wear knee high boots and be able to zip them all the way up!
sit in a movie theater seat and be comfortable.