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MY FRIEND CINDY

Sunday, March 01, 2009

MY FRIEND IS STIL IN A COMA WITH LITTLE OR NO BRAIN ACTIVITY AND THERE IS NOTHING MORE THE DOCTORS CAN DO--THE DOCTORS TOLD HER HUSBAND AND FAMILY THAT THERE IS NO HOPE FOR HER--IF SOME KIND OF MIRACLE DOES HAPPEN AND SHE AWAKES SHE WILL NEED TO BE HOSPITALIZED AND TAKEN CARE OF FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE--CINFY WOULD NEVER WANT THAT.. SO THE FAMILY IS HAVING A HARD TIME DECIDING TO TAKE HER OFF THE RESPIRATOR AND LETTING HER GO--THEY NEED PRAYER FOR STRENGTH TO MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION THAT IS BEST FOR CINDY.. IT IS SO SAD AND I AM SO GRIEVED OVER IT.. THE DOCTORS ARE SAYIG THEY ARE NOT SURE EXACTLY WHAT HAPPEDNED EXCEPT SHE WAS PUT ON NEW MEDS FOR HER BACK AS SHE HAS A HISTORY OF BACK AND NECK SURGERY--I THINK SHE HAD A STROKE--BUT IT IS A MYSTERY..
THE CINDY WE KNEW IS NO LONGER WITH US AND I PRAY THE FAMILY GETS THE STRENGTH TO LET HER GO IN PEACE..THE ICU TOLD THE FAMILY THAT THEY CAN ONLY KEEP HER IN ICU FOR 42 DAYS--I AM NOT SURE HOW LONG SHE HAS BEEN IN THERE..
THANKS FOR YOUR PRAYERS..PRAY FOR PEACE FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY. IT IS ONLY A MATTER OF TIME NOW..

GOD BLESS TO ALL OF YOU WHO ARE PRAYING.. CINDY IS A WONDRFUL PERSON AND SHE DOES NOT DESERVE THIS--BUT WE ARE NOT IN CONTROL OF OUR OWN DESTINY..
GOD BLESS ALL
FOR IT IS IN JESUS' NAME I PRAY
SUSIE SMITH FROM PA
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  • TRACYZABELLE
    I am very sorry for all you are going through. I got this poem when my Nana passed and it comforted me.. knowing they had a full happy life, makes saying goodbye so much ewasier..

    The Dash
    by Linda Ellis


    I read of a man who stood to speak
    At the funeral of a friend.
    He referred to the dates on her tombstone
    From the beginning to the end.

    He noted that first came the date of her birth
    And spoke of the following date with tears,
    But he said what mattered most of all
    Was the dash between those years.

    For that dash represents all the time
    That she spent alive on earth
    And now only those who loved her
    Know what that little line is worth.

    For it matters not, how much we own,
    The cars, the house, the cash,
    What matters is how we live and love
    And how we spend our dash.

    So think about this long and hard;
    Are there things you’d like to change?
    For you never know how much time is left
    That can still be rearranged.

    If we could just slow down enough
    To consider what’s true and real
    And always try to understand
    The way other people feel.

    And be less quick to anger
    And show appreciation more
    And love the people in our lives
    Like we’ve never loved before.

    If we treat each other with respect
    And more often wear a smile,
    Remembering that this special dash
    Might only last a little while.

    So when your eulogy is being read
    With your life’s actions to rehash
    Would you be proud of the things they say
    About how you spent your dash?

    © 1996 Linda Ellis

    4531 days ago
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    I am praying!
    4537 days ago
  • CANNOTFATHOM
    I am keeping her family in my prayers!


    Penny
    4537 days ago
  • SUNNYGAL2018
    ((((YOU))))))
    i am sending you hugs and prayers my friend that God gives you and Cindy and her family peace within during her last days here on this earth....
    I have had a best friend now for over 25 yrs.. and I just cant even think of what it will be like the day that i lose her... I am so so sorry for you hun....
    BUT i see that you know that the Cindy u once knew is no longer there... but yet In a much better place called Heaven... and knowing this... YOU WILL SEE her again at Heavens Gate one day and walk the streets of gold hand in hand...
    Please know that i will keep you and cindy and all her family in my prayers.
    God bless
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    4538 days ago
  • ALASKAN
    Hello Susie,
    I'm so sorry to hear about your friend Cindy.. I would like to invite you to my team
    " A Safe and Happy Home For Grievers" and I will leave the invitation open to you anytime you
    want to join. Again, I'm sorry about Cindy. I'm online all the time if you want to contact me.I would really like for you to join us so we can try to help you deal with this and you can tell the other members what happened to Cindy and to give you some comfort. You take all the time you need and if you want me to send you the invitation, I can do that too.
    We just lost one of the leaders on the site Friday. No one knows what happened to her either. But she passed away too. The world is full of mysteries and some can not be solved.
    Always, ERNA
    4538 days ago
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