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Where do some BOYS not MEN, GET OFF??????

Thursday, February 04, 2010

Hello my fellow sparkfriends,

Today I had a male totally disrespect me in a text because I did not call him on last night! Did I miss something because the last time I checked I was not in a relationship with this individual and I have told him that I was only interested in being his friend! Doesn't being a friend make it alright if you say you are going to call and you don't? I have no interest in this person and for him to go completely off like that over nothing has really pissed me off. So my question is EXACTLY WHERE DO SOME OF THESE MEN GET OFF? Did I mention that this person does not have a job or car? lives in his grandma's house? He is so beneath me that I can't handle the thought of him feeling like it was okay to disrespect me in a TEXT. What is this text thing really all about? I guess in some situations it seperates the BOYS FROM THE MEN.....

I just had to get that out because as women if we don't set boundaries and have standards some men will treat you any kind of way. I will not be treated any kind of way and today all the brotha did was reinforce my decision to BE HAPPILY SINGLE AND SATISFIED.

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  • WAY2GO5
    In the end, the best Man is the Man Himself - to give people too, and let Him sort it out for us. Have a blessed day, Honey.
    Way
    3997 days ago
  • SPARKYCARLEY
    I think if he's getting this possessive and it's only a friendship you should be weary about him. I'm thinking you need to keep the friendship itself at arms length.
    4098 days ago
  • OUIDA971
    You know you don't have the time or energy for that type of non-sense. I have a guy that I told 3 months ago that I wasn't interested in dating nor a friendship w/him (his family got legal issues). Don't you know he pops up again today sending me an email... which will go unread & unanswered! Some guys just don't get it & those are the ones we need not involve ourselves with.
    4107 days ago
  • BREEZE-FITNESS
    I know exactly what your talking about, I happily married went out with what I thought was a male friend on Monday night for a drink.
    Arrive home and get a text saying Only for their was company around us, he had a instence desire to kiss me.
    I gutted because he knows I love my husband and he knows my hubby quite well .
    He had just lost a friend cause I could never pop out and meet him for coffee again ,

    Are woman not allowed men friends or do they all take it the wrong way.

    W*****R

    Trish
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    4108 days ago
  • KDUNCAN7
    Good for you. I am married and a little upset with my spouse. I feel he does not appreciate me. Women should be treated better. Way to stand up for yourself !
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    4108 days ago
  • SHIMMYHIP
    It sounds like a fear and control thing to me. That's either his personality or game play. Since it bothers you, just love him from afar. Meaning.... just as easily as you did not return his call the other night, don't return his call ever. You spoke about boundaries. Keep yours firm. Now you know what kind of person he is so NEXT! Don't even be so bothered.
    4108 days ago
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