Short vent 8/7/14
Thursday, August 07, 2014
I don't understand why the girls Sydney is hanging out with at dance have to be so mean. She gets in the car last night and bursts out crying because the girl she had a sleepover with last Friday night was completely cruel to her at dance yesterday. I mean, really mean and rude. I don't get it. And then she looks at me with tears running down her face and asks me what's wrong with her that people would be mean and intentionally exclude her. I am at a loss as to what to say other than that girls can be very mean and she must not take it as a reflection of her worth as a person.
That girl reached out to Sydney on Friday and asked her for a sleepover. She invited her to her house, it's not like we forced it on her. And then five days later she's a complete nasty girl to her. She teamed up with another nasty girl and really was horrible.
I promised Sydney if she keeps telling me what is going on that I will not take away her cell phone or make her get off social media. Maybe she shouldn't be on instagram but I know her and if I tell her I'll take away the phone she will stop telling me what's going on.
The worst of it is usually this girl is nice and I like her mom a lot. It was baffling to me why she acted this way too. I told Sydney not to wonder why but to back out of the text conversation that continued after she left dance and to not interact any more last night. She has to go back today. We'll see how it goes.
I seriously don't like these dance people very much sometimes........
Thanks for the vent. This is the only place I can vent this out without those friends seeing it!!