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Why I Hate Christmas So Today

Sunday, December 20, 2015

Before you start with hateful comments, hear me out. I love to celebrate that Christ was born, and came into the world to save mankind. We are a materialistic society, which has made it into a time of pressure, stress, and chaos. I have gotten caught into this web myself, I mean I love to buy nice stuff, and give others gifts to make them smile.

But Jesus is lost in all this madness, including the timing of His birth. Many scholars believe Jesus was born during the warmer months, not Dec., 25th. The Roman Catholic Church was believed to settle on this date for reasons like the winter solstice and was considered a pagan holiday.

Some argue it was the spring Jesus was born because of the shepherds watching over the flock in the field during the birth. It would have been too cold for this. Regardless, Christmas has lost its meaning. Christmas decorations up at the end of August, mass email marketing sends vying for the pocket, and Christmas trees before Thanksgiving-- is too much. This is not a time for God or celebrating loved ones, this a time for retailer to deck the halls with my money, along with splashing advertisements everywhere you go before Veteran’s Day.

In 2013 researchers found that half Americans considered Christmas a religious holiday,
Pew Research Center poll found in 2013. Not much good news to report.

About 51 percent of Americans viewed Christmas as a Holiday “while 32 percent say that, for them, personally, it is more of a cultural holiday. A few (9 percent) give other responses, such as saying it is both a religious and a cultural holiday or saying it is neither a religious nor a cultural holiday, while 7 percent say they do not celebrate Christmas, and 1 percent say they sometimes celebrate Christmas or decline to answer the question.”

How can we reclaim this time of year?

With some adjustments you can cut out some of the madness and pressure of Christmas consumerism by making tough decisions. Giving gifts is not a new thing to do. Try baking, making or offer to babysit for a gift. Give them something that they need. This can be groceries, time, or take them to do errands. Make list on how you can honor the Lord today, and serve others.

Get rid of the impulse to buy something by waiting a few weeks to buy something. We need to also stay focused of why we love Christmas, besides it is a fun time with people, indulging in foods, and embracing the beautiful lights. Talk about the symbolism of the holiday like forgiveness, get an Advent calendar, and find scriptures to share with others. Keep Him first. If you fail, oh well! We are not perfect, so get back up.

“The war on Christmas—the war on Christ—is doomed to fail. Christ came the first time to rescue us from our sin--He is coming a second time to establish His kingdom forever under His righteous reign. Preacher Franklin Graham wrote in Charisma Magazine in 2014.

No matter when Christ was born, His mission will not change. It is up to us to resist the pressures around and in us.

“Every believer from every age who has repented and trusted in Him for the forgiveness of sin will be with Him. The Babe at Bethlehem will be the conquering King. So this Christmas, don't worry if you see the opposition building. Praise Him that He came to earth 2,000 years ago on a rescue mission, that He has rescued you," Graham offered.

Go to the Bible. Try the following Scriptures to reflect on this season:

Isaiah 9:6: "For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace."

Zechariah 9:9: Rejoice greatly, O daughter of Zion! Shout aloud, O daughter of Jerusalem! Behold, your king is coming to you; righteous and having salvation is he, humble and mounted on a donkey, on a colt, the foal of a donkey."

Corine Gatti is a Senior Editor at

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    We gave up the commercial aspect of Christmas many years ago. Any money spent is spent on individual birthdays to make that person feel really special. Even the youngest grandkids understand this concept. Christmas Eve and Christmas Day is reserved for church, time spent with family playing games, and reflection on the year past: not the mad rush to open a present and the move on to the next.

    Blessings for you on this most Blessed of Days! emoticon emoticon
    2002 days ago
    I agree with your message. I buy little things for people I love and usually it's practical stuff. Spread Christ's cheer , send cards and sup together. Be thankful. You're right on! emoticon
    2004 days ago
    It's commercialism and profit that has created a "war" on Christmas.

    I wish stores would not connect their sales to any religious or patriotic holiday.
    Christ is born, come buy a new cellphone?
    Thousands have died for your freedom, come get a good deal on a TV?

    The message of both is drowned out by the frenzy of consumerism.

    2006 days ago

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    I am AMAZED that the survey said HALF consider Christmas a religious holiday.
    It sure seems to me that LESS around me do.

    Have a Wonderful CHRISTmas Week

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    2007 days ago
  • MAMALOU1942
    Christmas is a holy day not a holiday.
    In church this morning Father said it was Christ's Mass that we celebrate.
    This year I'm giving to my 3 children and not to my grands and great grands. They just open packages, look at them and wait for the next package to open. They never like what they get [unless it's money] and never say thank you.
    So now I'm doing myself a favor and have extra to give to charities that are deserving.
    My friends and I do a Christmas lunch and exchange cards and that works for us.
    Christmas Mass, being with family...that's what it's about.
    2007 days ago
    2007 days ago
    thank you for being brave enough to post the truth

    I do not decorate or give gifts that were purchased for this purpose I give gifts that the person seeds or can use when they need it

    have a wonderful Christ filled week
    2007 days ago
    Amen. I just posted on fb something very similar. GOD BLESS YOU.
    2007 days ago
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