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12 Simple Decisions to Make 2021 Better than 2020 by Joshua Becker

Thursday, December 31, 2020

If you don't know of Joshua Becker, his website is called Becoming Minimalist. I received this in my email this morning and thought it was a very good take on going forward to 2021. I have included a link to his page below. I wish you all a safe New Year's Eve. I will be watching the ball drop from the comfort of my home and happily saying goodbye to 2020.

It’s about time to turn the page on 2020. And thankfully so.

What should we expect for 2021? Well, my guess is everything will start to feel a bit more normal—especially as the vaccine continues to roll out. But I’m not in control of the world, so how would I know for sure?

I am not in control of the world, however I am in control of myself… and you are in control of yourself. So even though we can’t control everything around us, we can control some things.

At the very least, we can control how we interact with the world around us. And many times, that makes all the difference.

To that end, in an effort to make 2021 a better year for everyone, here are 12 decisions we can all make as the new year begins:

1. Smile more. I think we all miss seeing smiles in public spaces. Once the masks are off, decide to show more of those pearly whites every chance you get.

2. Complain less. 2020 was a year of dealing with life-and-death issues on an almost daily basis. In some ways, all the things we used to complain about seem so small now. So let’s decide to no longer complain about the small stuff.

3. Appreciate more. I thought 2020 would be the year I got everything I wanted. Now I know 2020 was the year to appreciate everything I have. Decide now to carry that forward into 2021 and appreciate all the good around us in a more intentional way.

4. Connect more. In 2020, we lost the ability to connect with others in-person—at coffee shops, churches, restaurants, concerts, sporting events, and even some family gatherings. Let’s never overlook the opportunity to connect with others again.

5. Own less. When everything is taken away, we see what is most important. When it comes to recognizing what activities contribute to quality of life, accumulating physical stuff pales in comparison to the actual life-giving pursuits we are being forced to go without. Decide now to own less in 2021.

6. Encourage more. 2020 was a hard year for everyone! And all of us needed encouragement from time-to-time. Let’s give it freely in 2021—whether people ask for it or not.

7. Waste less. Seems like we all learned the value of another day and another opportunity—because too many had their last one taken from them in 2020. Let’s decide now to not waste any day, any moment, or any amount of energy remaining.

8. Thank more. Decide now to say “thank you” more often. You will be blessed, and the recipient will be blessed. Win-win.

9. Compete less. One thing is for sure—we’re all in this world together. As a result, it’s too easy to see the world as competition against one another. Instead, let’s remember we’re on the same team, all trying to be the best versions of ourselves. If you want to compete, compete against who you were yesterday rather than the stranger down the street.

10. Understand more. Not only was 2020 marked with a global pandemic and economic downturn, in many parts of the world (including my own) it was a year of political strife and division where a difference in opinion was often regarded as a difference in principle. It rarely is. Everyone will benefit—both sides—if we decide now to argue less and understand more.

11. Save more. With the overnight shutdown/collapse of many businesses and a worldwide economy, 2020 showed the importance of having some financial savings in reserve. If you haven’t made saving a priority, decide to do it now. Here are some helpful steps to get there.

12. Love more. Love your spouse. Love your kids. Love your friends. Love your co-workers. Love your neighbor. Love. The world needs more of it.

What does 2021 hold? I have no idea.

But with these 12 decisions as my resolutions for 2020, I’m ready for just about anything. Because life is more than the circumstances surrounding me.

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  • CATE195
    Thank you for sharing Kathy. I somehow missed your blog. emoticon
    153 days ago
    Sounds like a great list! Thank you for sharing!
    154 days ago
    A wonderful list! Will be re-reading this one for sure... emoticon
    159 days ago
    This is a great list. Here's to a successful and amazing 2021!
    161 days ago
    Great post! I definitely think this has made me more appreciative and I reach out even more to friends. Best wishes for 2021!!
    162 days ago
    What a wonderful list. I subscribed to the website. Also, sent the link to several family members and friends.

    Thank you so much. Happy New Year! Stay safe. Be well. emoticon
    162 days ago
  • HOLLYM48
    I love your list and couldn't agree more with every single one of them. 2020 was quite a year. I really tried to focus on all the good that came out of it last evening as we talked about what went right. There were definitely blessings that came out of the tumultuous year. I am praying that people learned from this year that life is fragile, treat it with care. I agree about loving more as we just don't know what we will be called home.
    Have a great new year. Let's pray it is one with many blessings, joy and happiness and a lot less sorrow!
    162 days ago
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  • LOSINGIT2020
    Great decisions!
    163 days ago
    This is a really good list---liked all BUT particularly #5 and 7.
    Own Less---Never have I become more appreciative of what we have, and no need for more. We are both content---and a few years after retirement, i have found the need to simplify. Too much 'stuff' is a burden, weighs me down---and noticing a big difference in my energy levels every day, I do not want 'more" to tend with. Less works better now.
    And WASTE less---Definitely TIME. At 74, i see just how fast a day goes by---and the years pile up. So i do not waste a moment or a day. Time is just too precious to waste. I also more conscious of treating my hubby as the friend he is----and even if I am having a lot of pain and tired, i act pleasant and treat him w/ the respect he deserves. Overall---it is a great list and i thank you for sharing! Best wishes for health and happiness in 2021---and truly living each day as the first---and yet the last. (I sometimes think: what would I do if this were my last day---because one day it will be. So i will live it well..........((Hugs)) my friend!
    163 days ago
  • BJAEGER307
    emoticon emoticon Happy New Year to you and yours! emoticon
    163 days ago
    I love all these ... great list. Happy 2021
    163 days ago
    A very good list for "21. I appreciate and cherish my favorite things more, and am ready to get rid of more or more baggage.
    163 days ago
  • no profile photo CD14575754
    That's a great list to pin up somewhere you can see it every day, so you can keep track of how you're doing.
    Here's to you and 2021... emoticon emoticon
    163 days ago
    Wishing all the best in 2021.
    163 days ago
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