XAVTAY's Blogs

Where do some BOYS not MEN, GET OFF??????
Thursday, February 04, 2010      6 comments

Hello my fellow sparkfriends, Today I had a male totally disrespect me in a text because I did not call him on last night! Did I miss something because the last time I checked I was not in a relationship with this individual and I have tol... Read more
Friday, January 22, 2010      5 comments

Okay Spark Friends, To those of you that know me, you know that I have been on a quest to have natural hair. I was without the creamy crack since March of 2009. Well I have a... Read more
Wednesday, January 13, 2010      5 comments

Okay my Spark Friends I really need help with this one!! I have been very very stressed the past month dealing with house issues. I have been so low at times that the only thing that kept me going was thinking of my boys. In the midst of all o... Read more
Tuesday, January 12, 2010      2 comments

I am glad to have an opportunity to make a difference for me in a new year! I will succeed and win in 2010!~ No further excuses or delays going forward with me. I will lose this weight and I need daily inspiration to achieve my goals. Toda... Read more
Tuesday, December 15, 2009      6 comments

Hello my dear spark friends..... I have a confession to make, I am ususally so happy during this time of year but for the past couple of weeks I seem to not be happy or even in a holiday mood. I am not to the point of being like Scrooge but I t... Read more
HOLDING ON BY THE SKIN on my chinny chin chin!!
Tuesday, December 08, 2009      4 comments

It's been quite some time since my last blog!~ Since I decided to be honest about my weight so much has changed it has been unbelievable. I am stressed out to the max and I have been very depressed, stressed and miserable. I stopped exercising... Read more
It's Time to be HONEST!!!!!
Tuesday, November 03, 2009      10 comments

Okay my sparkfriends, I have a confession to make. My weight is not 210 and it has not been for several months now. I went to the doctor and found out that now I am 218! It is time to be honest and I am so ashamed of myself!!!! I lost 2 pou... Read more
MY B-DAY!!!!!!
Thursday, October 29, 2009      9 comments

Hello Spark Friends, For the first time in a very very long time I am actually looking forward to my birthday. My birthday is on tomorrow and I will be going out of town with family to celebrate. I usually get depressed and start thinking ab... Read more
Wednesday, October 28, 2009      4 comments

Sometimes you have to risk losing it all! How else will the universe take you seriously? Do what you were afraid to do yesterday, TODAY! Think about the current status of your life. What are you willing to risk to have the life you desire?... Read more
Wednesday, October 14, 2009      12 comments

Ladies, Why do we continue to allow men to make us as an option instead of a PRIORITY! I have blogged about this before but for some reason I find myself bloging about this again. MEN-I was recently in a relationship with a guy I have known s... Read more
Give Thanks
Tuesday, October 13, 2009      2 comments

Give Thanks to the Lord, call on his name; make known among the nations what he has done! Has the Lord done anything for you? Give Thanks Have a blessed day Bla nn... Read more
Does God have you on hold?
Monday, October 12, 2009      3 comments

If the Lord has you on hold... hold on! If the Lord has said 'NO' to you... thank Him! If the Lord is moulding your heart and mind... go with His change! If the Lord opens doors that you have been asking Him to open... Praise Him! Be bl... Read more
Friday, September 11, 2009      7 comments

Have you ever asked yourself this simple question: WHAT IS IT ALL ABOUT? Why am I doing this and what am I trying to achieve? I have found myself asking that question for the past couple of weeks. Being a single mother of 2 growing boys is ... Read more
What motivates me?
Thursday, August 27, 2009      3 comments

My boys are my pure and only motivation! I want to be around to see them grow and mature into God fearing men. I want to enjoy being a grandmother and prayerfully a wife. When I want to give up, I keep going because I think of my boys bein... Read more
Thursday, August 20, 2009      14 comments

To everything that we start their is also an end. I was watching an interview that Tyler Perry had recently. During the interview, he talked about going for a job interview. The prospective employer looked over his resume and made the stateme... Read more

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